Former Bellevue West hoops star and Creighton University point guard Josh Dotzler has lived through the saga of Abide, the northeast Omaha ministry his parents started in 1989.
Twenty-five years ago Ron and Twany Dotzler stepped out on faith to move their large multi-cultural family – he's white and she's black – from the suburbs to the inner city to pursue a community-focused calling. Gangs were first asserting themselves. Shootings and killings became endemic. Through their nonprofit the couple responded to conditions giving rise to crime, poverty and hopelessness.
Josh and his family have lost neighbors and friends to gun violence. Others have ended up in prison. Residents are skeptical of do-gooders coming in from outside. As Abide's front person Ron Dotzler battled credibility issues as a white preacher in a black community. The light-skinned Josh and his rainbow-hued siblings – all 13 of them – had to prove themselves, too. After establishing the ministry as one not just passing through but there to stay, Abide made traction. Josh's parents have since handed the leadership reins over to him.
He admires his parents' courage to climb out on a limb as a mixed-race couple doing street missionary work while raising 14 kids. His parents feel being an interracial duo has been a help not a hinderance.
"I think that's why I love what we do," Twany Dotzler says. "We can be a bridge to expose people to those differences, to people who may not think like you do, act like you do, look like you do. If you can just be intentional about getting to know them through relationships you'll see what we do have in common and what we can do together."
"Most of what happens to try and bring people together is dialogue and while there's importance to that and it definitely brings awareness," Ron Dotzler says, "the reality is most of us don't really change by dialogue. For our work in this community we intentionally get people together. The last two years we've had 15,000 volunteers come into this community from outside this community and that means they are now interacting with people. The result of our diversity is our work together, not our conversation."
He says the Bridge church he launched as part of Abide is "very diverse" and openly discusses race. "I don't know of too many churches that do that. If we're going to have the deep meaningful relationships God called us to we've got to be honest with this stuff."
Twany feels Abide's accepted because it values people "right where they're at" and makes the effort "to build relationships, to break down those denominational walls, those racial walls, those economic walls." Ron says, "We intentionally create multicultural environments. You have to have people that really want to be bridges and not take sides."
Josh admires the path his parents blazed for him to follow and the sacrifices and risks they took staying true to it.
"I feel like they're groundbreakers and have gone through incredible odds. There's been times when we had no money and my parents didn't know if they'd be able to provide Christmas presents for us or have groceries for the next week. I can think of multiple times when they hit some of those lows but as children we never felt it. We were broke and poor and people turned their back but my parents never let on to us, 'I don't know if we're going to keep going on,' even though my dad shares now there were times he felt that way."
Josh's folks always found a way. They converted a trashed-out former hospital laundry facility that had originally been a horse-and-buggy fire station at 3335 Fowler St. into the home for their growing family and the headquarters for their organization. Josh and his older siblings pitched in. The couple opened a second community center at 3126 Lake St. that became the worship space for Bridge, which targets at-risk youth. The couple turned a nearby home into a half-way house and "Lighthouse."
Seven years ago Abide went from tackling select problems such as gang activity to taking a holistic, immersive neighborhood approach. Together with church partners it began "adopting" blocks to make its presence felt through celebrations and cleanups. It also started acquiring, rehabbing and occupying abandoned homes to create Lighthouses that bring stability to transient areas. Abide networks with contractors and churches for donated materials and human resources.
This new approach is modeled after what the Dotzlers did on their own block to build community. Following their lead, neighbors fixed up their houses. Front porch talks became common. Criminal activity dropped.
"We saw the change that was happening," Josh says. The Omaha Police Department noticed, too. "The police came and said this neighborhood that was once one of the worst is now one of the best and we'd love to partner with you." Dotzler says Abide is "the eyes and ears of the community."
That partnership continues today. Omaha Police Department Capt. Scott Gray, who heads the Northeast Precinct that includes Abide's operational territory, says, "We meet quarterly with them to discuss any issues that might be occurring in the neighborhood and how we can best solve them. They'll communicate with us if there are any problems and they've actually been pretty instrumental in serving as a contact point for any police-community friction that needs to be resolved."
He says Abide's work to beautify properties and foster fellowship helps residents take more ownership in their community, which dovetails with OPD's Neighborhood Stakeholder's strategy. He says Abide's well-attended events give police welcome opportunities to interact with the community in a positive light. He champions Abide taking rundown, vacant properties and flipping them into occupied homes again.
Dotzler says, "One abandoned house with broken windows can be a magnet for negative activity that messes up an entire neighborhood. We see that all over the place. Within a one-mile square radius of us there's over 100 vacant homes. A Lighthouse can transform an entire community by providing light where there was dark." He says these homes serve as safe anchors and resources. Lighthouse residents are supports and facilitators as well as conduits to Abide and Bridge.
"When we start to work on a Lighthouse we take on that entire neighborhood," Dotzler says. "We go door to door to all the houses to connect with the families and invite them to community events. We have barbecues where we grill out front and invite everyone. We intentionally do things so neighbors get to know each other."
He says because many inner city residents are in "survivor mode," there's "a relational drought" stemming from fear or mistrust. That's why he says "building relationships is our biggest mission – it's crucial."
Lighthouse residents sign covenants pledging to engage neighbors in ongoing fellowship. It's all part of Abide's integrated approach to build community, one person, one family, one block at a time.
"You can't just focus on one aspect of a person's development or a community's development," he says. "You can't just focus on education and expect crime to go down. You can't just focus on building a house and expect that community to change. You have to focus on taking that dark side of the neighborhood, which was that abandoned house, fixing it up, putting a family or a person into that house that is a part of the change for that community, and providing the programs for people to develop, whether it's in education or employment.
"You have to break down this huge challenge into bite size pieces, which is why we take a neighborhood approach (Better Together). You have to engage people at a grassroots level. You have to be in the neighborhood and community you want to see transformed. You have to have community buy-in, so most of our staff members actually live in the community we work in and many of them live in Lighthouses."
Jennefer Avant, her husband Damone and their son DJ reside in a two-story, three-bedroom Lighthouse on Larimore Avenue. The family reaches out to people on their block to create community.
"We do a neighborhood block party and clean-up. We do one-on-one outreach to neighbors," Jennefer Avant says. "We have a neighbor renovating a home with no running water and we've made our outside spout available for him along with our outside electric sockets. We have extended our own time to help if he needs us, we've shared our wood for his outside fire pit, and we've provided a warm meal.
"We have an elderly neighbor that also cares for her ailing son. We help with her yard and we check on her and her son to make sure they're safe. If they need something beyond what we can do we forward their needs to Abide-Bridge. When we talk to our neighbors we find out exactly what is needed and then inform Abide. Not everything is about money. Mostly we provide companionship."
Dotzler says, "All our programs are built around providing relationships with people who can paint a picture of what life can be like." Much of Bridge's work is directed at youth and young adults. "It's mentors coming alongside young people, spending time with them, speaking into their life, encouraging them and helping them become who we believe they're created to be," he says.
Hanging from a wall at the Abide offices is a city map with pins charting every homicide committed in Omaha since 1989. Another map shows the city's churches. It saddens Dotzler that the two maps could be overlaid and look identical, suggesting the mere presence of churches doesn't curb violence. For churches to make a difference, he says, they must minister in the streets. Therefore, Bridge aims to be "about change," he says. "I think the powerful thing about Bridge is it's a church in the community for the community. We go and engage people on their terms, in their turf. We keep it real. We say, 'We're not anybody better than you but we'd love to help you in any way we can.'" That approach has found a receptive audience. It helps, he says, that Bridge leaders are from the community and thus "have the relational equity to engage" with everyone from elders to Young Gs.
Avant says. "No matter how small, we have to do our part to keep each other safe, especially our kids." She says Abide has become a well known and accepted player in the inner city "because of the investment of volunteers and staff that have made a difference and gained the trust of our neighborhood." She adds, "Young and old alike always ask when the next event is. Yes, prizes are given away, but it is more than that. People receive prayer, hugs, acknowledgement, someone to listen and connect. If Abide or the churches they partner with were not around, our neighborhood would be in much worse condition."
Omaha Police Capt. Scott Gray says, "We've seen a reduction in incidents, especially with violent crime in the areas where they operate. They do a lot of outreach in the community. They get that sense of community re-instilled in the neighborhood."
Abide's increased imprint has seen it go from a single adopted block to 100 and from one to 20 Lighthouses. Seven new Lighthouses are being readied for occupancy. Abide block parties have gone from a couple hundred attendees to 2,000-plus, outgrowing the Abide site and moving to nearby Skinner Magnet Center at 4304 No. 33rd St. Similarly, Bridge has outgrown the Lake St. building and now holds services at North High School, where 500 followers gather on Sundays. Thousands of volunteers annually work on Abide projects and programs, from painting houses to mowing lawns to mentoring kids.
Skinner Magnet principal Tarina Cox says the block parties Abide throws at her school are inspiring.
"It is amazing to see the large number of kids, parents, volunteers, Abide Staff, community members, Skinner staff and members of Omaha Police Department come together to provide a fun and safe environment for our community."
Skinner also partners with Abide on hosting an annual Thanksgiving dinner that draws hundreds as well as neighborhood festivals, Easter egg hunts, staff appreciation days and backpack giveaways.
Dotzler says he and his parents believe that overturning the foundational poverty that keeps people in despair or isolation requires addressing not only education, jobs and housing but "love, safety, care, nurture," adding "People hunger for someone who actually cares and wants to see your needs met and see you become successful. At the heart of it is a hunger for spirituality, for purpose in life.
"In our holistic way of thinking you need housing, which provides safety and stability and which turns a negative spot in the community to a bright spot. You need family support programs which provide opportunities for individuals to grow and develop. You need community building activities and events to create a sense of camaraderie and neighborliness. We say we want to put the neighbor back in the hood. It's a part of this bigger strategy in neighborhoods we're working in on an ongoing basis and so it's a building block."
Abide's growth has coincided with its more organic approach.
"We have partners come in and take on these specific neighborhoods, again not just doing a program but building relationships in that community that carry on past just a house getting refurbished. It's more than providing a service, we're creating a whole new culture and where you're creating a new culture you better make sure you're addressing the different cultural realities there.
"By being in and living in the neighborhoods we've been the ones who have been changed because our eyes have been opened, our perspective has been broadened. The longer I'm in it the more I realize what I don't know and the more we realize we need to continue to learn from the community and the people were working with. We're always figuring it out and evolving."
Above all, he says, "we're not here to save the day – we don't want to be the organization that comes in and has the answer for everything but we're here to provide resources and relationships so that people's lives can be enhanced."
Dotzler loves his work but didn't expect to be doing this. The 2009 Creighton grad saw himself playing ball overseas and going into business. There was no succession plan for him to take over Abide but seeing his parents grow it made an impression on him.
"I got to see a picture of what it looked like to live with purpose, passion and something that was bigger than yourself," he says.
Besides, he adds, "I think everybody wants to make a difference."
But he didn't think he was up for the job and so he resisted it even as his parents nudged him to be more involved.
"I've never seen people step back with more humility," he says of his parents. "I wouldn't even be here if it wasn't for them pushing me here.
It was them saying, 'You have it in you, we believe in you, we want you here.' I never thought I was equipped or the person to do this and didn't want to be but through encouragement from my dad and the rest of the family, my leadership capabilities just kind of emerged. My parents got more confident in me and I got more confident in my role."
Finally, with his older siblings variously away or enmeshed in their own careers, he committed to Abide and for his own family – he and his wife have three kids – to live in a Lighthouse.
"My wife gave me a three month ultimatum. She said. 'Let's move here for three months and then move somewhere else.' We both said let's give it a try and see what happens, and we're still trying it out five years later. But we really feel like this is where we're supposed to be.
"It's been nothing but a blessing."
He says a good day on the job can mean many things.
"It can look so different, whether I'm coaching the 1st and 2nd grade basketball team and a kid attitude or behavior-wise made a step or trying to make this Lighthouse program go to another level so we can impact more neighborhoods."
Making progress in any area satisfies him.
"Progress in individuals, progress in our own process as an organization, always moving forward. When we get better everybody gets better. I love that process of trying to get better every single day – to make a community and individuals better."
He says it's not about plaudits, though his parents have received their share and have many admirers.
"In these neighborhoods people may or may not know the name Abide but they would know we're the group that does the block parties or goes door to door passing stuff out or they would know Bridge church. They definitely would know our family."
Jennefer Avant makes no bones about the impact the Dotzlers make.
"Ron and Twany Dotzler are amazing people. Caring, down to earth. God is definitely at work in their lives. Where they started to where they are now is such an awesome testimony to their faith and in turn strengthens mine. So many lives touched, including mine personally."
Josh Dotzler just wants to take Abide where community needs lead it. He'd like to one day scale up to 700 Lighthouses. Whether that happens or not, he wants to make Abide a part of the solution.
"We feel very confident in terms of the pieces we have to see the neighborhoods transformed. Everything that's happened over this past 25 years has kind of helped prepare us for this."
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